June 11, 2011

Facebook Relationship Status Drama


We have all seen it, and if you have very many friends on Facebook, it might be something you see on a weekly basis. One friend is single. Another one is in a relationship. Then, there is that one who is complicated. Sometimes, you may watch your friends go from single, to attached, back to single and then attached again in a short amount of time. The Facebook relationship status has become like the gossip mill of the high school lunch room.

Honestly, whether or not you choose to let all of your friends know about your relationship status is a personal preference. You may wish to announce to everyone that your divorce finally went through, and if you do, then Facebook can be the perfect forum for that. However, if you do not wish for the world to know what is going on in that part of your personal life, the good news is that there are three different ways that you can control it. You can choose one or more than one of these options, but no matter how you set it up, it will be up to you if your friends know about your complicated relationships.

Facebook “Relationship Privacy” TIP:
When you change your relationship status, it comes up on the news feed of all your friends and your own wall. You do not have to leave it this way, though. You can visit the privacy settings page and look for the part that controls what shows up in your news feed. Then you can uncheck the box for relationship status.

If it is already showing up in the news feed, then a simple, one time solution is to go to your wall and then click the “x” to the right. This will immediately remove the relationship status change from everyone’s news feed.

Those two issues control the relationship status change.

What if you do not want anyone knowing even what your relationship status is at all? There is a solution for this too. When you go to your profile settings page and you visit the section called “basic information” you can check the box to remove relationship status. This way, when people visit your profile they will not be able to see this about you.

In Facebook-land, the relationship status is a little like high school drama. It can be a vehicle for gossip, and it can also be a vehicle to get unwanted attention. If you want, you can take this little setting completely off to save yourself from the aggravation.

June 10, 2011

Stemming the tide of workers in Singapore

Singapore (The Star/ANN) - A likely verdict of the immigration backlash by Singaporean voters is being felt by foreign workers half a world away -- foreign hopefuls ranging from middle-aged professionals to fresh-faced graduates, from technicians and waitresses to construction workers, seeking to land a well-paying job here.

After years of open immigration, tens of thousands are facing unpromising prospects these days.
When the then economically weak countries in the West were closing their doors, this city -- Asia's second richest -- virtually turned itself into a free port for job seekers.
It welcomed all types of workers in large numbers from East and West to its shores, pushing a three million population in 1990 to 5.08 million.

Quite a few were talented by any standards, but many were also people who had few capabilities to contribute but who merely took away local jobs.

Thousands ended up as prostitutes or cardboard collectors.

In the May 7 election, public anger boiled over, forcing the authorities to backtrack.
For years, citizens had been protesting that the foreign deluge was causing hardship to them and their families.

Civil action groups and social networks took protest action in sympathy with unemployed and underemployed Singaporeans -- many from the middle class -- who were replaced by foreigners.

The demonstrations will not go away. The impact is already being felt at the policy level.

The government has cut down by nearly half the number of foreign workers from an average of 130,000 a year each in 2007, 2008 and 2009 to 80,000 last year.

Further tightening is on the cards. There will be fewer foreign work permits and professional visit passes as well as permanent residents (PR).

The surge in foreign workers began in 2005 as the government sought to diversify the economy away from manufacturing into services such as tourism.

Two stresses are at play. On the one hand is Singapore's low fertility and ageing population and manpower shortage (or mismatch of work skills) that force employers to turn to foreign sources.
The other is insufficient protection for workers against abusive employers.

Nothing can stop an employer from sacking a Singaporean and hiring a foreigner just to save money.

Neither is there any law that prevents a boss from hiring a foreigner even if local skills are available.

The extent of the current tightening is unknown, although leaders are insisting that foreigners are still needed.

The future, however, may well be dictated by the hard realities on the ground.
"If they turn the flood back on again, the People's Action Party will lose the next election in 2016. Period," a political researcher said.

"(The government's) only hope is to gradually reduce the numbers and look after Singaporeans first."

Some believe that the poorly-handled policy may have forced Singapore to retract its expansion -- at least until it can meet housing, public transport and healthcare needs.

The government may have no choice but to cut back, even at the expense of weaker growth. The public emotions appear too strong to overcome.

In the last days of campaigning, it was evident that Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong was very worried about a possible thrashing -- including in his own candidacy in Ang Mo Kio.

Two days before polling, Lee apologised twice for mistakes his government had made in the past few years -- including overcrowded trains and housing shortage.

"It was a great relief to him that it did not happen," a reporter said.

But the 6.5% drop in votes probably made him resolve to go for drastic change to avoid trouble in 2016, including an immigration solution.

For hundreds of thousands of prospective foreign job-seekers -- many from countries like Malaysia, China, India and the Philippines -- the change is their worst fears come true.

Many had been watching the heated debate with rising apprehension, fearing a curbing of the flow.

Since then, there has been widespread talk that companies are finding it hard to bring in foreign workers.

The most worried lot are fresh graduates from several Asian countries facing a shrinking job market at home and seeking relief abroad.

This means that unless foreigners have special talents -- or their skills are unavailable in Singapore -- getting approval will become harder.

Not only that. Those workers who have arrived and found wanting may find it harder to get renewal.

It is not just the work applicants. Families and spouses, and PRs, too, are coming under increasing scrutiny.

Even foreign wives of Singaporeans who lack job qualifications are finding it hard.

All this by no means signifies a closed-door strategy. Singapore will likely continue to employ foreigners but it will be at a more acceptable pace.

The criteria of what is talent may be stricter to ensure locals are not discriminated against.

"The election result has become a hard reality for the government," the researcher said.

"The PAP has lost its stranglehold. It will no longer be able to decide all the options in future."

For Singapore, it could spell an end to its ambition to have a 6.5 million to seven million population for a long time to come.

When it was first mooted, making Singapore a metropolis comparable to the top global cities -- London (population 7.4 million), Paris (2.14 million), New York (8.3 million) and Hong Kong (seven million) -- Singaporeans reacted with pride.

They liked the idea, the image and the buzz. But after years of crowd-jostling and dense living, few people today like a population of that size.

In fact, quite a few prefer it smaller and more comfortable.

June 7, 2011

KEN doesn't date girls who are into deforestation. (Goodbye Barbie)

Rainforest scandal REVEALED!

The habitat of the endangered Sumatran tiger is under threat from deforestation for pulp and paper. Image: Alamy
A rainforest scandal has just broken up one of the world's most iconic couples, as it has been revealed that Barbie, the world's most famous doll, has been wrapping herself in destroyed rainforest. This revelation has led Barbie's longtime beau Ken to announce publicly that he "doesn't date girls who are into deforestation."
Barbie's scandalous deforestation habit is fed by her manufacturer Mattel, who uses paper products made by notorious forest destroyer Asia Pulp and Paper (APP). APP continues to rely on clearance of carbon-rich rainforests and peatlands in Indonesia despite the dire consequences for the climate, endangered animals like the Sumatran tiger, and local communities.
Priceless rainforest and animal habitat are being lost - all so that Barbie can wrap herself in cheap, throw-away packaging! Mattel needs to put an end to Barbie's destructive deforestation habit and immediately stop using APP products.
Join Ken in denouncing rainforest destroyers - send a message to Mattel today. You can join Ken right now on Facebook (Not on Facebook? Make sure Mattel knows how you feel about rainforest destroyers here.)

Last year with your help Nestlé was convinced to remove rainforest destruction from its supply chain. Now we are counting on your support and your voice again as we continue to demand the change needed to protect Indonesia’s rainforests.



Article from Greenpeace.org and YAHOO!

Aquino names Roxas DOTC chief

Yahoo Philippines - President Benigno “Noynoy” Aquino III appoints his 2010 elections running mate Mar Roxas to a newly-vacated Cabinet post.

Aquino himself issued a statement Tuesday that the former Senator has accepted his offer, at the same time reiterating that Roxas is still part of his economic cluster as a “senior member.”

Roxas will replace former Secretary Ping de Jesus who resigned last week. Four other undersecretaries resigned from the DOTC to give way to the choices of the new department chief.

The president said he earlier had other plans for Roxas but he couldn’t find any other person fitted to the DOTC post.

“Kailangan ng taong magpapatuloy ng mga repormang nagsisimula na sa DOTC. Hindi puwedeng magtiwala tayo sa kung sinu-sino para palitan ang pinuno nito (We need someone who can follow through on the reforms that have been started at DOTC. We can't just entrust the position to somebody we don't know),” Aquino said.

“Kailangang may talino at kakayahang magpatakbo ng isa sa pinakamalaki at pinakamayamang ahensya ng gobyerno. Mas mahalaga, kailangan ng isang taong kaya akong sabayan sa pagtahak sa tuwid na landas (We need a competent person to run one of the biggest government agencies. More importantly, we need someone who can keep up with my mission to put everyone on the right path),” he added.
The president also lauded Roxas, whom he described as the one who has the capacity to initiate his administration’s projects in DOTC, an agency riddled by corruption controversies like PIATCO, and the multi-million NBN-ZTE deal.

Aquino said Roxas will also remain as his adviser.

“Marami pa rin po akong ibang iuutos sa kanya; aasikasuhin pa rin niya ang mga kailangang asikasuhin, sisilip sa mga butil para makita ang buong kaban ng problema at solusyon para po sa bayan. Tuloy po ang serbisyo sa atin ni Mar (I still have other tasks for him. He will still see to the other matters that need solutions. Mar will continue to serve the country),” he added.

Weeks ago, Roxas was reportedly being tapped as the presidential chief of staff, a position Malacañang plans to introduce despite pundits pointing out that it was no different with the Executive Secretary post.

Mindoro Misadventure Madness Trip - Lesson Learned

By: Shela delos Reyes

I was supposed to climb Mt. Pulag this holy week.. I actually have my bus ticket for that climb but I received an invitation from Mark Alvin Estrella that they are going to climb Mt. Halcon without personally knowing who the organizer is.. And I haven’t met the participants before.. Only Doc Jose Landrito is the only one I knew and met personally among them.. At first I asked him if that is sure because I knew that Halcon is closed.. But he said that "Mr. Organizer" already have the information regarding that mountain and they sent me the proposed itinerary.. They said that they have read an article in the internet and the president of Halms told them that Halcon is already open.. That's why I decided to sell my booked ticket for Pulag to Isumaeru Dominikku MengdoDigital DomengXtreme because he is decided to join the climb in Pulag.. My climb buddy Dennis Hisanan also asked me to join him in their Bakun Trio but I resist because of my false excitement to climb Mt. Halcon..

April 20 (Wednesday), our meeting place is in Buendia, but Mark Alvin Estrella, Alex Strong Galsim together with his two other friends and I met in Jollibee Junction Alabang.. Mr. Organizer said that we should be there in Alabang at 2am.. But Mr. Organizer arrived at 2:20am being drunk.. tsktsk.. Other participants were waiting for us in Buendia (kami na lang ang kulang).. From there, our journey began. We rode a bus going to Batangas Pier.. We ate our breakfast first in the terminal and they started drinking the so called alcoholic beverage (I don’t know kung ano name ng alak) while waiting for the participants from Bicol, the Tribu Guinobateño Mountaineering Club (TGMC).. After more than 2 hours of waiting in the terminal, at last they came! Ang dami rin pala namin, having a total of 20 participants.. And their inuman session continued in the ship until we reached Calapan Pier..

From Calapan Pier, we rode tricycle going to Calapan Market to eat lunch and buy supplies for the span of four days.. We stayed in the market for almost 2 hours (or mahigit pa ata).. We rented a jeepney from Calapan market going to Lantuyang River.. I noticed that we didn’t went to Baco Municipal Hall to register which is in the itinerary.. Pero di ko na lang pinansin because I thought that Mr. Organizer already done everything we need.. Natatanaw na namin ang Halcon habang papalapit na sa jump-off..! And because of too much excitement, Sadeck Miguel and some of the boys went on the top of the jeepney.. Then Rosejane Lim and I followed them (inggitera kasi kami kaya nag top load na din.. hahaha!)

When we were in Lantuyang River, hinarang agad kami ni nanay (yung bantay sa may Lantuyang River).. Alex Strong Galsim talked to nanay regarding our climb.. Then nanay said that she couldn’t allow us to push through because Halcon is not yet open to mountaineers.. We decided to stay in the Lantuyang River and wait for whatever will happen sa pakikipag-usap ni Mr. Organizer sa mga locals.. While Alex Strong Galsim is making a way on how we could push through to the mountain top, we just enjoyed swimming in the cold water in the river.. And some of us still continued the inuman session and others prepared our food for dinner.. Going back sa usapan nila nanay and Alex Strong Galsim, nanay told him try to speak to the barangay captain.. He said to them, “isa ako sa mga nagrescue kay Prana nun dito kaya payagan niyo na kami umakyat”.. But it doesn’t work.. They said that we should go and talk to the Mayor and get a permit.. Though it’s already late and for sure the Mayor was not in the office, Alex Strong Galsim and Doc Jose Landrito went to the house of the Mayor (so desperate for Halcon!)..

We were left in the Lantuyang River and just enjoyed the place so that boredom will fade.. When Alex Strong Galsim and Doc Jose Landrito went back (medyo malayo pa sila), they were shouting in a joyful voice.. That’s why we thought that the Mayor allowed us to go in Halcon.. But we were all wrong.. Trip lang pala yung pagsigaw na yun.. As they stated the conversation they had with the officials, everybody became sad.. Of course we are, because there are so many wasted time, effort and money as well.. But we can do nothing about that.. All we can do is to accept the sad reality we had and just enjoy the night.. We ate our dinner (kahit nawalan na ng gana) and as usual they resume the inuman session at nagkatuwaan with the DOM – Dirty Old Mountaineers.. hahahah!!

Think, think, think.. Everybody was thinking of what to do.. Alex Strong Galsim said that “hindi ako papayag na di tayo makaakyat.. Kung kinakailangan mag back door gawin natin”.. But we said to think of another plan not to climb illegal.. We said that maybe there’s a reason behind why the situation didn’t go with us.. They suggested na mag beach na nga lang daw in Puerto Galera, then Mark Alvin Estrella suggested to go in Pandan Island and go diving.. Then everybody agreed.. The night for us continued in grief.. Heavy rain fell down.. Then we realized that it’s not the proper time for us to climb Halcon.. Maybe many of us were perished if we pushed through because of the heavy rain in a mega major spec of a mountain..

As we woke up early in Thursday morning, the weather is in good condition.. But after few minutes, the rain fell down again.. Baka kasi mag attempt pa kami umakyat kaya umulan ulit.. heheheh.. Thank God for giving us sign not to insist our own decision and everybody was safe.. We prepared our things and went back to Calapan Pier.. Goodbye Lantuyang River.. hahaha!! Topload again sa jeep,, while singing “pangarap ka na lang ba o magiging katotohanan pa” – dedicated to Mt. Halcon..

We stayed in Calapan Terminal, nilatag ang mga basang tent in the midst of the super init na araw.. Pinagalitan kami ng guards sa Pier, bawal daw dun.. The group was divided.. Plans made were broken.. Some has no budget at all in going to that Pandan Island or even in Puerto Galera White Beach, and to my surprise in an unpredictable mood of Alex Strong Galsim, nag walked out and decided to go home.. Yung iba tinamad na din.. I don’t know if they were 4 or 5 went home that time.. Then Sadeck Miguel, Dreb Jun Celestial and I searched for mountains to climb nearby or within Oriental Mindoro.. And the rest just went to Puerto Galera White Beach..

While on our way to somewhere, I received so many calls and text messages of concerned people asking if it’s true na nag Halcon ako.. Then one said that “TALK OF THE MOUNTAINEERING COMMUNITY” daw yung event na naipost with our nomads number, nagpanic daw ang aking mga ninjas, nabulabog daw ang SRMP, etc.. After my adventure climb with Sadeck Miguel and Dreb Jun Celestial, we also went to Puerto Galera White Beach.. We stayed there overnight and I woke up early Saturday morning because I also want to climb Mt. Malasimbo which is near the beach.. And I did.. After that, Sadeck Miguel and I decided to go home because we have nothing to do there if we stay and were running out of budget.. hahaha!! At 2 o’clock in the afternoon, nakasakay na kami ng boat going back to Batangas Pier.. From there, we go in our separate ways..

When I got home, I automatically turned on my computer and check out my facebook account having a total of 14 messages and 158 notifications.. tinamad na ko ibrowse lahat.. But somebody sent me links of the conversations in different mountaineering groups regarding that stupid event made and happened.. Pinagtyagaan ko na lang din basahin.. As they said, “nasa huli ang pagsisisi”.. I told myself na sana nag Bakun Trio na lang din ako with my buddy Dennis Hisanan.. Well anyway, nangyari na.. And because of that experience, I have so many lessons learned and I realized that there are so many people who care for me..


And before I end up this, I would like to leave this message to all of you which is also a lesson for me..

“Kung sasama kayo sa kahit anong open/invitational climb, dapat iresearch nyo yung profile ng organizer.” - Melo Sanchez

“In climbing major climbs, dapat may cooperation ang bawat isa at dapat magkakakilala kayo atleast nagkasama kayo ng mga 2-3climbs.” – Melo Sanchez

“in organizing a climb, my 2 rules: (1)Safety first. (2)No man left behind.” – Melo Sanchez

“Wag na magpumilit. Utak ang ginagamit sa race hindi ang lakas. Be Resposible to yourself.” – Edward Mikehell Grylls


Special thanks to the following people: Rheysonn Cornilla, Eduardo Bedural, my ninjas, and to all SRMP people for letting me feel the importance of my existence in earth.. hahaha!! Ang drama eh nuh.. I love you all guys.. )